As I sit here to type this I question who I am to help you with overcoming imposter syndrome.
After all, I am still questioning myself. Shouldn’t I have figured this out before I start telling YOU how to do it?
This is the exact reason I am writing this to you right now.
You will never not feel like a fake. You will never stop questioning whether or not you are truly qualified to help people. You will never get to a point where you’re finally “good enough” and you’re now “ready” to rest on your laurels.… Click to read more
Success isn’t a result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire. –Arnold H. Glasow
Simply put, indecision is the progress killer.
Decide, revise, decide, revise should be the herald of the true adventurer and sovereign woman.
There is a quality that all great leaders look for that is a diamond indeed hard to come by, and that is the quality of self initiative.
Most people wait for direction, then once received they execute and seek approval and direction for revision based on their actions.… Click to read more
Despite the fluorescent lighting, cheerless gray cubicles and confining schedule, I had a good job.
Or so I was told.
The truth is that I actually enjoyed the work that I did. It was purposeful and felt good to do.
I was paid well, enough to live comfortably and buy the things I wanted. And most days, I didn’t get too annoyed with the coworkers I never had a say in choosing to work with.
I was managing an employee recognition program for the largest non-profit healthcare company in the world.… Click to read more
Each moment you’re not fully embracing, your life is wasted and your aliveness is denied.
There are two ways this happens most often.
You’re grasping for something that’s already passed:
- A breath-taking view fuzzily reimagined through Facebook photos.
- The afterglow buzz of last week’s lovemaking.
- Adoration from the crowd as you rocked the stage last year.
Or, you’re waiting for something better in the future:
- Training your body in the hopes that one day, you’ll be able to do the things you really want to do.
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Consciously adopting your beliefs can make your life amazing. Randomly or unconsciously collecting beliefs can make your life hell.
When you actively seek out powerful beliefs, you can design a life that other people think is only for savants and outliers.
If only they knew that the beliefs that shape your life are more like clothes you can try on or take off at any time (granted, some are like tight leather pants that can be a bit pesky to peel off).… Click to read more